ok i have a problem i have a friend from back home and i need some adivce i was woundering how do you define what a christian is k here is the problem that my bff from back home and she used to be on fire for God however now she isnt and hse doing some stuff that isnt quite so good and very stupid and when i tell i dont approve and that she hurts me she does it any way but i cant leave her cause im basicly her mother she does them any way and she keeps telling that even though she is doing these things she still gonna go to heaven i tell her other wise but she wont listen she says i go to church and that makes me a christian guys please help thanks marge