Monday, January 21, 2008

beauty what is it really

So im rather annoyed, confused and frustrated with America in gernal  but the thing that bothers me the most  is we are constley telling others that  "outter beauty" really dosent matter its whats inside that counts  however,  i have yet to see a story in a movie, on tv, in real life or even amung my girl friends  we all say this however  it never until someone is in make up or dressed up do we call them "pretty" or "beuatiful"  and i have always been to really look at the heart of person as Jesus did and im guilty of compltemting people when there dressed up and even when there not  but if its really on the inside that counts  than why do only complment each other when were wearing make and guys your just as guilty as the girls  so my question is do really care about the inner beauty or do we just say that  to make others feel better about themsleves  for me its about the inner beauty  thats why im not a fan of make up but when i have too  cause the most beautiful thing is a person's heart  so the next time you go to give someone a complament  think if you really mean it  and  what end of beauty really matters to you

2 comments:

Sammie said...

That is a really good point. We know that God does not look at the outward appearance, but he looks at the heart. I think I need to pay more attention to what kind of compliments I am giving people. I don't usually say so when I notice that someone has a particularly sweet spirit or is being a servant, etc.

I want my beauty to be my inner beauty. Thanks for the reminder!!

Gary said...

As I mentioned on another of your posts, I've never been called beautiful or whatever either unless someone was teasing to be cruel.

There are a few girls I know who don't emphasize physical beauty and who mostly don't wear makeup. I'm captivated by them because I appreciate their spirit, and so I make a habit of showing it by what I say and how I treat them.

Honestly, I think the beauty most people appreciate is only skin-deep. Most girls judge by looks, too, and no amount of kindness or humor seems to change that, in my experience.