how do you want to be measured

okay so its been over month since my last entry its not like any one actually reads this but im need to write about something
my heart has been sadded by something latley i have been noticing alot of people i know judinging others or being juged by others and i for life of me cant figure out why
i know for a fact For God did not send his Son into the world to condemn the world, but to save the world through him. john ch3:17
did we as christians for get this very imporant factors and why do we always look at the plank in our brothers eyes before we do so in our own matthew 7:3 i know alot the time we feel as though our sin isnt as bad as someone elses well the truth is sin is sin and its all the same to God and he is ONLY ONE WHO HAS THE RIGHT TO JUDGE ANY OF US PERIOD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! it makes me so sad to see my firends doing this but also upsets me because it makes me wonder what makes them think their better than the person they are judgeing and makes wonder why they think they have the right i mean Jesus wasnt with the rich and wealthly he was with the sinners and the poor he was with the ones who needed him most so i wounder why insted of judging someone for what they do or who they are why cant they look past it i mean if you want to judge them fine but just remeber
matthew 7:1-2 Do not judge, or you too will be judged. For in the same way you judge others, you will be judged, and with the measure you use, it will be measured to you. and i know i have been judged by socity, friends, classmates, family for many things from the issues with my disabilities to weight, the way i dress to way i treat others, or the fact im just plain different and i cant even begain to explain how much it hurts and how hard it is to face it day after day but i also know that im a better person for it and to my friends who have been judged others im so very sorry i know how it feels personally and it breaks my heart for you because yall so amazingly wonderful i love you just the way you are and im sooo thankful for you and you all be stronger people
if you have been judging someone i ask you to take a moment and ask your self is this how i want to be judged? is this fair? how can i make this persons life better? by being there for them or doing something for them is this how i want them or others to treat me?
just some food for thought