I know my title is pretty bold but i think it something we all have forgotten to do these days..... I have been thinking about this pretty much all year with the loss of two friends, then in the lime lights of the Mckinney shooting over the summer, the loss of a Denver Branchos foot ball players and today the Gun man on UT campus plus a converastion with a co worker today really has me thinking that something people used to do in the olden days or golden days how ever you choose to look at it but something i feel we all need to do is just flat out SHUT UP AND LISTEN to our friends, our family, co workers, ect who having hard times esp with the unspoken words... that are not seen nor herd but still being said with looks, fake smilies and the hiding of whats going on but all too often we may ask someone how they are doing and give the im okay, or good, fine how are you but not really asking how they are like whats going on in their life or seeing if in some way we can meet their needs, we only meet others needs when trady strikes what if we did this everydya before it hits not saying that it wont but what if we put our phones away or stoped face booking to actually meet in person and talk about what someone else needs are and forget yours.... now i know your reading this and saying marge thats such a wonderful thought but i dont have time for that if you cant make time for one of the most basic reasons on why were put on here on earth than what the heck are doing with your life??? when you die people wont remeber you for millions of dollars you made, the toys you had ( ie cars, boats, homes, ect) they wont remeber you for the job you had or where you went to church, but for how you impacted other lives and what kind of person you were and what kind of friend/brother/sister/ doughter/mother/father/aunt/uncle/ cusin you were and honestly what is more imprant than listening to a friend, co worker, family member who needs you????
if you cant make time to care than you cant make time do anything
